It seems that since the NLP sessions, I’ve encountered several of these moments where I’ve overcome my fears easily and taken action. I can’t believe how clear all this is: I truly believe I can do this with my life. I’m a good musician. I retained what I learnt when it would have been easier to run away and hide. Damn, I feel good! Mind you, now I also know that I have never been fully prepared for my performances before. I have had a phrase sitting on my piano for years but have not fully absorbed it: “An amateur practises until they get it right; a professional practises until they can’t get it wrong.” I’ve been skating by because I can get away with it, but I’ve also been hiding my light – so now that I’m aware and ‘out there’ I canNOT get away with it. Sorry, I sound all gushy, don’t I?
Since the NLP I’ve encountered things I have never encountered before. Weirdly, I have been confronted by situations that I had previously been worried about but had not actually experienced. And I dealt with them all. It was fine. I thought it was interesting that in many situations in the weeks since I was given the opportunity to demonstrate to myself how I could cope.
So thank you again, It’s a new world!
After suffering a fairly serious breakdown I was unable to cope with life in general. My body felt broke, old and frail – I didn’t just feel middle aged, I felt half dead. I hadn’t realised that my body was self destructing and I was doing it to myself, working long hours, too much alcohol, lots of bad food and absolutely no exercise.
After six months of working with Bianca, I no longer need my blood pressure medication, anti depressants and my cholesterol is in a safe zone. I have lost 2 dress sizes and more than 26 kilos. I now have a life outside of our business and can see a happy, healthy future for our family. I hope the person I became never comes back as I like this girl so much better.
I had heard of Bianca through some magazines – it was an investment but I had tried and failed so many times but in six short months, 20 kilos melted off me and it had a massive and unexpected effect on our styling business. While working with Bianca we secured a national gig, increased our prices to a level we previously thought no one would pay, AND we were booked out weeks in advance.
The majority of this 20 kilo weight loss has only been 5% diet and exercise, the rest has been an emotional journey. Bianca confronted me and called me on my BS and challenged some of my most deeply help beliefs about who I am. And the results are undeniable. I haven’t completely quit drinking, I still get to eat chocolate, I’ve had the best year in my business EVER – and perhaps the most important thing is how differently I react to things emotionally.
Who knew that taking it slowly and being kind to yourself could get you the results that yelling at yourself couldn’t.
Before working with Bianca I was super stressed and I thought it was too hard and I didn’t have the time to be slim AND successful. But I was surprised at how easy it was to implement Bianca’s system – I haven’t counted calories and I still pig out on foods I love. It’s been no coincidence to me that as a result of the new clarity of mind I’ve actually doubled my business at the same time I’ve made these changes to my body.